John Roche O’Bryen 1810 – 1870

John Roche O’Bryen is Ernest’s father, and Celia O’Bryen was his second wife.

John Roche O’Bryen was baptised in Tracton Abbey, co Cork on the 14th January 1810, and died in London on the 27th July 1870, seven weeks after the death of Charles Dickens – his near contemporary. JROB was two years older.

He was a student at Trinity College, Dublin, and graduated in medicine at the University of Glasgow in 1836. He then practised in medicine first in Bristol, from at least 1841 until 1858. He then spent three years in Liverpool. By 1861, the family were in London, first in Manchester St, W.1,  and then in present day Drayton Gardens, South Kensington – then known as Thistle Grove.

So far fairly uncomplicated; however the story starts to get a little more complicated. JR’s family bible has survived (currently with one of his great-grandsons), and is a very useful, if not completely reliable source. I’m going to look at it separately. He appears to have a rather curious double marriage:

“John Roche OBryen & Eliza his wife (born Henderson July 27th 1805) married Decr 25/32 Janr th 7th /33 by Protestant Curate at Bordeaux With Issue”. 

JR was studying medicine in Bordeaux at the time, so the assumption is that the first marriage is a Catholic one, he was a Catholic and all the children were brought up as Catholics. The reason for the second marriage is one of the big intriguing questions.

Anyway to continue with the facts. JR and Eliza have ten children:

  1. Emily Jane 1833 -1844.
  2. Henry Hewitt 1835-1895
  3. Mary Anne 1836 -1856.
  4. Corina Margaritta Eliza 1837- 1907
  5. Edwin John 1839 -1857.
  6. Eliza Louisa 1840-1844.
  7. Catharine Teresa 1842 -1845.
  8. Mary Frances 1844 -1858.
  9. Cecilia Agnes 1846 -1856.
  10. (William Gregory) Basil 1848 -1920 

Emily, and Henry are both born in France, and all the others are born in Bristol. Only Henry, Corinne, and Basil survive to adulthood.

Eliza dies on 25th April 1857, and JR remarries on the 1st October 1857.  He and Celia have six children.

Alfred Charles O’BRYEN, 1859 – 1942  born in Liverpool

Mary Evelyn O’BRYEN,1858 – 1916 born in Liverpool

Philip Augustus O’BRYEN, 1861 – 1913 born in London

Walter Mary O’BRYEN, 1862 – 1871 born in London

Ernest Adolphus O’BRYEN, 1865 -1919 born in London

Edward Reginald O’BRYEN, 1867 – 1928 born in London.  

His father Henry Hewitt O’Bryen Senior, was born 1780 in Ireland , and died 11 May 1836 in Cobh, County Cork.  He married Mary Roche Nov 1807 in Whitepoint, Cobh, Co. Cork, the only daughter of John Roche and Miss Collins?.  She was born in Ireland (?), and died in ????.

John Roche, Mary’s father, and JR’s grandfather, also has a major part to play in the story.

The children of Henry and Mary O’Bryen are:

Jane O’Bryen, born 1808; died 1837 in unknown

John Roche O’Bryen, born 1810 ; died 1870 in London

Hewitt O’Bryen, born 1811 in Ireland; died 1845 in Norfolk

Robert Hewitt O’Bryen, born 1814 in Ireland; died 1888 in  Ireland.

Henry Hewitt O’Bryen Junior, born 1815 in Ireland; died 1873 in Ireland.

Stephen Hewitt O’Bryen, born Unknown in Ireland; died 1872 in Gibraltar.

Mary A O’Bryen, born Unknown in Ireland; died 1863 in Ireland.

Henry Hewitt O’Bryen’s father Laurence O’Brien was born 1754 in Ireland (?).  He married Jane Hewitt on 20th Mar 1778 in Castle Townsend, County Cork, daughter of Henry Hewitt and Unknown. 

Their children are:

Henry Hewitt O’Bryen, born 1780 in Ireland (?); died 11 May 1836 in Cobh, County Cork.

Stephen Laurence O’Bryen (unconfirmed)

and finally Laurence O’Brien’s parents are Daniel O’Brien and Ann Sullivan; Daniel O’Brien was born 1717, and died 1758 in Castletownsend, co Cork.  He married Ann Sullivan in 1743 in Cork.

The Purssell photos

I am enormously grateful to Christine Carver (who is a Purssell cousin) for her help in identifying these photos. She wrote this back in June 2015.

“I have an enormous pile of photos of the family given to me by my father I got him to write names on the back but  a lot of them are badly faded. However I have managed to identify yours. With help from papers given to me by his sisters Noella mentioned in the letter from Ursula, and Awdry who did a great deal of research without help from the Internet ! Ursula was the 3rd daughter of Laura Mary Clare who was Alfred’s eldest  daughter by his first wife.Ursula was born 1894 and died 1974, not married. Laura Mary Clare was married to Max Winstanley.”         

Back to your photos:

Alfred Joseph Purssell
Alfred Joseph Purssell

The young man with folded arms was Alfred  Joseph eldest son of Alfred, born 1867,  died1931. He was a stone mason and imported  large quantities of Italian Marble which was sold for various  buildings in London, including Brompton Oratory .He had a partner in his business Wilfred McEvoy. 

Charlotte
Charlotte

The young lady with her hair tied back and dark, gathered sleeves is Charlotte, younger sister to Alfred J.  born 1869 married to Wilfred Parker 1898. I also think it is her with  the bridesmaids present around her neck?

Charlotte
Charlotte

The one with the hat and high collar is Agnes born 1871 married Edmund Bellord 1890.

Agnes
Agnes
Gertrude (Lady O'B)
Gertrude (Lady O’B)

And the other two ,the lady with the comb in her hair and the one covered in forget-me-nots are Lady O B.

Gertrude (Lady O'B)
Gertrude (Lady O’B)

 

In addition, I am very grateful to Nicholas Bellord (Agnes’s grandson) for the following additions.

My guess at this one Children of Alfred Purssellis that it is Frank Purssell with his sisters, rather than Alfred.

Agnes Mary Purssell with Charles (query)Then there are two of Agnes with her son Charles

Agnes and Charles Bellord with others - Purssells possibly.

Patrick Grehan III, 1818 -1877

Patrick GREHAN III  is Celia O’Bryen’s brother, and son of Patrick Grehan Junior, grandson of Patrick Grehan Senior,  and  Thady Grehan’s great grandson. He was born 1818 in Ireland, and died 1877 in Hampstead, London.  He married Frances Susan PITCHFORD 1842 in Poplar, [probably the parish of St leonard, bromley poplar} London.  She was born 1821 in Stratford, Essex, and died 1893 in Hampstead, London.

Their children are:

Edward Aloysius GREHAN, born 1843 in Poplar, London; died Bef. 1864.

Mary O’Connor GREHAN, born 1844 in Poplar, London.

Wilfred GREHAN, born 1849 in Ireland.

Clare GREHAN, born 1858 in Ireland.

Edward Aloysius GREHAN, born 1864 in Ireland; died 1881.

By 1871, Patrick’s branch of the Grehan family merits its own entry in Burke’s Landed Gentry

Grehan of Mount Plunkett. 

Grehan Patrick, esq. of Mount Plunkett and St John’s co Roscommon, J.P., b 21 March 1818; m. 4 April 1842, Frances, eldest dau. of the late John Pitchford, esq. of Norwich, a descendant of the old family of Pitchford of Shropshire, and has issue,

  1. Wilfrid b 6 Aug 1848
  2. Charles b Nov 1850
  3. Gerard b May 1852
  4. Francis b Oct 1855
  1. Mary O’Conor Graham
  2. Alice
  3. Louisa
  4. Clare
  5. Agnes

Lineage – The family of Grehan claims descent from the Grahams of Montrose, and tradition narrates that its ancestor, escaping from the persecutions in Scotland, fled to Ireland and changed his name to Grehan.

The present Stephan Grehan, esq. of Rutland Square, Dublin succeded by the recent death of his cousin Major Grehan, s.p. to the representation of the Grehan family. His cousin, Patrick Grehan, esq., now of Mount Plunkett, is the son of the late Patrick Grehan, esq. of Dublin ( by Catherine his 1st wife, dau. of George Meecham, esq., and co-heiress of her mother Catherine, dau. and eventual co-heiress of William Hodson, esq. of St John’s, co. Roscommon) and grandson of Patrick Grehan, esq. of Dublin who m. Judith, dau. and eventually co-heiress of Edward Moore, esq. of Mount Browne, co. Mayo (lineally descended from Lewis, the 4th son of  Roger O’More, of Leix, by Margaret, dau. and heiress of Thomas, 3rd son of Pierce, 8th Earl of Ormonde). Through this marriage with the co-heiress of Moore, Mr Grehan of Mount Plunkett quarters the arms of O’More of Leix, and Butler, Ormonde.

Link to BLG 1871: http://tinyurl.com/pqu2tuj 

  • National Library of Ireland: Arms of Grehan of Mount Plunkett, Co Roscommon, 1863. GO MS 179: 101
  • National Library of Ireland: Copy of confirmation of arms to Patrick Grehan, Mount Plunkett & St Johns, Co Roscommon, grandson of Patrick Grehan of Dublin, merchant, 5 June 1863. GO MS 109: 13-14

Celia O’Bryen 1830 – 1901

Celia Mary GREHAN was born 1830 in Preston, Lancashire, and died 14 Oct 1901 in Lancaster.  She married John Roche O’BRYEN (1810 – 1870) on the 1st Oct 1857 in Mount Plunkett, Co. Roscommon, Ireland. 

Philip, Celia, and Alfred O'Bryen
Celia O’Bryen

They have the following children:

Alfred Charles O’BRYEN, 1859 – 1942  born in Liverpool

Mary Evelyn O’BRYEN,1858 – 1916 born in Liverpool

Philip Augustus O’BRYEN, 1861 – 1913 born in London

Walter Mary O’BRYEN, 1862 – 1871 born in London

Ernest Adolphus O’BRYEN, 1865 -1919 born in London

Edward Reginald O’BRYEN, 1867 – 1928 born in London.  

Her father Patrick GREHAN Junior was born 1791 in Ireland, and died 1853 in Clifton, Bristol, but described as “of Worth Hall, Sussex”.  He married (1) Catherine MECHAM in 1817, the daughter of George MECHAM and Catherine HODSON.  She was born 1792 in Ireland, and died before 1836.  He married (2) Harriet LESCHER 16 Aug 1836 in Brighton, Sussex, daughter of William LESCHER and Mary COPP.  She was born 1809 in London, and died 1877 in Hampstead, London. The children of Patrick and Catherine GREHAN are:

Patrick GREHAN III, born 1818 in Ireland; died 1877 in Hampstead, London.

Joseph Maunsel GREHAN, born 1828 in Ireland; died 1860 in Newington.

Celia Mary GREHAN, born 1830 in Preston; died 1901 in Lancaster.

Child of Patrick and Harriet GREHAN is:

Joseph Ignatius GREHAN, born 1837 in Brighton, Sussex.  He married Mary Josephine KELLY 1868 in Wolverhampton.

His father Patrick GREHAN  Senior was born 1756 in Dublin, Ireland, and died 1832 in Dublin, Ireland.  He married Judith MOORE, daughter of Edward MOORE.  Their children are:

Jane GREHAN 1782 – died Unknown 

Edward (GRAHAM) GREHAN 1789 – 1852

Patrick GREHAN Junior 1791- 1853

Patrick’s father is Thady GREHAN who was born 1722 in Dublin, Ireland, and died 1792.  He married (1) Christian [?].    He married (2) Margaret [?] 1755. 

Child of Thady GREHAN and Christian [?] is:

Peter GREHAN, born 1749. He married Mary ROCHE, daughter of Stephen ROCHE and Margaret MEADE. ( http://tinyurl.com/o9o9m45 ) who are the parents of Stephen GREHAN. 1776 -1871. Stephen Grehan is one of the main beneficiaries of his uncle John Roche’s will, and are documented elsewhere as the “Grehans of Clonmeen”

 Children of Thady GREHAN and Margaret [?] are:

Patrick GREHAN, born 1756 in Dublin, Ireland; died 1832 in Dublin, Ireland.

Andrew GREHAN, born 1757 in Dublin, Ireland.

Mary GREHAN.  She married John ROCHE; died in 1825 without issue. John Roche is the son of Stephen Roche by his first marriage to Margaret Meade. His  sister, Mary, also the daughter of Stephen Roche by his first marriage to Margaret Meade, married Peter Grehan, son of Thady Grehan by his first marriage to Christian [?].

Ernest Adolphus O’Bryen 1865 -1919

 

This was almost the first thing I searched on. We sort of knew that he had been Mayor of Hampstead, but not that it had been throughout the First War. In fact, from 1913 until his death in 1919 (six terms in total). He is easily identified in the garden party photo sitting next to the Cardinal. The decoration he’s wearing is a bit odd, and I suspect it’s possibly a papal decoration. He was granted a knighthood, but died before being done; but Lady OB was given the title anyway.

We also had pictures of him being the Mayor in the photo collection

The next thing I found was this obituary.

The Tablet, Page 28, 3rd May 1919

ALDERMAN ERNEST A. O’BRYEN.

We regret to record the death of Alderman Ernest A. O’Bryen, Mayor of Hampstead, which took place on Saturday night, at the age of fifty-three years, following on an operation from which he at first seemed to be progressing favourably. Educated at Stonyhurst and Cooper’s Hill, he spent some ten years in the Indian Forest Service in Upper Burmah, shortly after its annexation. He retired from the service in 1897 and married in the following year, Gertrude, daughter of the late Alfred Pursell. In 1913 he was elected Mayor of Hampstead, first Catholic to hold that position, and held it till his death. In 1916 he was President of the Stonyhurst Association and the same year was elected a Vice-President of the London Circle of the Catenian Association. During the war he took a leading part in making arrangements for the feeding and accommodation of Belgian refugees, and he also organised and equipped hospitals for the British Red Cross and St. John Ambulance. In 1915, Alderman O’Bryen was instrumental in raising the 183rd Howitzer Brigade and the 138th and 139th Heavy Batteries of Royal Garrison Artillery.

The funeral took place on Wednesday. The Requiem Mass was celebrated at St. Dominic’s Priory, Haverstock Hill, by Father Bodkin, S. J. Among those present were Mrs. O’Bryen and her five children, Mr. and Mrs. A. J. Winstanley, Captain and Mrs. Parker, Mr. Alfred Pursell, Mrs. Edwardes, Mr. and Mrs. E. J. Bellord, Mr. Frank Pursell, Mr. Alfred O’Bryen, Mrs. Rex O’Bryen, Mrs. Basil O’Bryen.

This helped a lot. Working on an obvious hunch that everyone named is a close relation, and a bit of digging, we have the soon-to-be Lady OB with her four sisters and two brothers, two brother-in-laws, and it appears the wife of a brother-in-law.  All eminently Googleable.

And not a difficult step to get to Dr John Roche O’Bryen, his father………..

Alan and Marie O’Bryen’s wedding 1924 with pictures

Front page

The Tablet, 3rd May 1924

A.R.O’BRYEN AND MISS BIDWELL.

At St. James’s, Spanish Place, W., on Friday of last week, the marriage took place of Mr. Alan O’Bryen, eldest son of the late Mr. E. A. O’Bryen and Lady O’Bryen, of 44, Harley House, to Marie Louise, eldest daughter of the late Mr. Leonard A. Bidwell and Mrs. Bidwell, of 10, James Street, Westbourne Terrace, W.2.

The Bishop of Miletopolis, the Right Rev. Mgr. Bidwell, Bishop Manuel Bidwell (3)cousin of the bride, performed the ceremony ; Father W. Bodkin, Provincial, S.J., celebrated the nuptial Mass, and Mr. Kenneth O’Bryen, brother of the bridegroom, was best man.

 

 

 

 

The bride, who was given away by her brother, Mr. T. L. Bidwell, was dressed in white crepe de Chine with a train of Limerick lace, lent by her grandmother, Lady Roper Parkington, Lady RPwhich was borne by Miss Dorothy Bidwell, sister of the bride. In attendance upon her were also Miss Cicely O’Bryen and Miss Valencia Lancaster, wearing frocks of hyacinth-blue crêpe de Chine embroidered in silver, and oxydized silver lace caps.

Following the ceremony a reception was held at 44, Harley House.